Researching Family History

My Grandad is at the back with his brother-in-law at his side.  They served in the same regiment in World War II.

My Grandad is at the back with his brother-in-law at his side. They served in the same regiment in World War II.

Researching family history is something I’ve enjoyed doing for years now.  It’s more than just a hobby.  I believe it’s something that has added significant value to my family for a number of reasons.

Knowing your family history changes the way you see history and the world.  It is the story of how you are sitting there reading this.   It changes how you view people.  It widens your perspective to beyond just the present day. It connects you to a picture that is bigger than yourself – because it’s not all about the ‘here’ and ‘now’, and you  making your stamp on history.  It’s about the continuous story, the unfolding narrative of God’s redemptive plan for mankind, and to what extent we partner with His plan.

Melita Holland (nee White) - Lou's mother

The only photo we have of my great great grandmother Melita Holland nee White (1865-1955). Her mother was the third wife of Samuel White. The tragedy of losing two wives a couple of years apart and leaving him with young children, led him to marry his third wife Jane Clark. She was living in a workhouse with two illegitimate children. Melita was the last child for them both, and my direct ancestor.

I believe a person cannot fully know who they are unless they know their ancestral story.  It forms part of our identity.  It’s more than simply knowing why your ancestors moved from place to place – be it surviving the potato famine or fleeing religious persecution – it all forms part of who you are today.

One of the things I’ve enjoyed, as I’ve gotten to know my ancestors’ journey, is connecting my family’s story to that of local and world history.  History books don’t always tell us of the affects that the decisions of Kings had on their subjects, or perhaps how leaders did not learn from their mistakes and were doomed to repeat them.

I have read of the direct consequences in my family line of those decisions by others, many times over, and how my ancestors had to make the best of surviving trials and hardships.  What values were forged in these times?  How did they respond to their circumstances, and who did they believe God to be to them?  What ‘inheritance’ did they leave for their children, which was in turn transferred to their children’s children, and so on?  And what am I responsible for passing to my own children – or changing?  In the process, how too do we honour the journey of those before us, even as we may intend to change the course of our present-day family?

from Will to Win

A card from my great uncle Will to his niece Winifred gave me the name of his vessel and narrowed my search for him. I eventually found his military records. Things like these are such a treasure.

Our family tree is a legacy I intend to leave for our own children, and that of our descendants.  The names, dates, record of information, and the ancestral story itself is part of that legacy.  But so too is my own story – one day it will be a valuable treasure to someone.

My legacy comes in the form of the physical research and recording, but it also comes in what I lay into my children’s hearts, what difference I make in the world to those around me, and how greatly I loved.  I hope to change history simply by being who God has intended for me to be, and laying a legacy that will change the future of my descendants for the better.

Over the next couple of weeks, I’m going to write on how to start researching your family history.

Street party c1946 with family members in the foreground.

Street party c1946 with family members in the foreground.

“Little House on the Prairie” Lapbook Set

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Photo credit: from Marine Corps Nomads (click photo for URL)

Here is a stunning set of free ‘Little House on the Prairie’ lapbooks by Heather on her website ‘Marine Corps Nomads’.  What an incredible gift to us homeschooling families!  We are so looking forward to doing these in future.

Heather has also created other lapbooks and notebooking pages that she offers for free.  Make sure you check out her super site.  I’ve just spent the last half an hour (so far) being encouraged.

- Victoria

Here are a couple of other places I found free ‘Little House’ resources:

The Little House series (at Book Depository):

Rediscovering the Joy of Maths

Like many other homeschooling Mum’s of creative artsty type children, we’ve had our challenges as of late with this area of learning.  It’s not even that my eldest (7) is not comprehending so much as it’s just dry and boring, and requires a little more effort than the breeze of reading that she’s come to know.  Some things in life just take effort, don’t they?  A good lesson for her.  :)

MathUSeeBut for the sake of her enjoyment (and the peace of our home), we are taking a month long break once finishing Math-U-See Alpha and before we start Beta, just to look over the basics again and make sure those foundations are solid for moving up a level.  Hopefully we can have some fun as well, and reclaim Maths as an enjoyable subject!

My approach is going to be two-fold: first, making maths meaningful.  And second, combining maths with art.  My daughter has complained that Maths is not beautiful enough, so I’m hoping we can do a few fun things to help her learn.

So with some helpful tips from my friend Emma, a little bit of Pinterest inspiration, and a mix of my own ideas, I think we have a plan for the next month.

Here are some things we’re intentional adding to our Maths learning:

  • Sidewalk chalk
  • Clock with numbers
  • Number flashcards
  • 100s Chart (actually displayed, not just tucked away in the cupboard :) )
  • Mathtacular DVD #2 (we already have the first DVD from a Sonlight package and will re-watch some of the later lessons).
  • Sparkle Box printables
  • Beads on string (separated into 5s)
  • Magnetic letters
  • Math-U-See activity sheets for alpha
Mathusee art

Our first two Alpha rules in art (sorry, not the best photo, but you should be able to see +0 at the top, and +1 at the bottom)

We’re also using art to practice the Math-U-See Alpha sums (addition and subtraction).  Inspired by this pin yesterday my daughter drew +0 in the centre and wrote the sums on the outside (0+1=1, 0+2=2, 0+3=3, etc).  She really enjoyed it.  So since we had some momentum, we did the second one, +1, and the accompanying sums around the outside.  Each segment had about 4 or 5 sums.

We intend to use crayons and dye, scrapbook paper with different prints, ripped paper into mosaic tiles, sand and glue, and whatever else we can think of.

[I should probably add, you don't have to be using Math-U-See for this to work:  you can always tweak the art project according to how your maths curriculum teaches the basic addition and subtraction sums]

Here are the sums that coincide with Math-U-See Alpha:

  • Adding 0
  • Adding 1
  • Adding 2
  • Adding 9
  • Adding 8
  • Adding doubles
  • Adding doubles plus 1
  • Adding to make 10
  • Adding to make 9
  • Randoms – 3+5, 4+7, 5+7
  • Subtract 0 and 1
  • Subtract 2
  • Subtract 9
  • Subtract 8
  • Doubles Subtraction
  • Subtracting from 10
  • Subtracting from 9
  • Randoms – 7-4, 7-3, 8-5, 8-3
  • Subtracting 7
  • Subtracting 6
  • Subtracting 5
  • Subtracting 3 and 4

We are marking the sums learned on the free printable charts on Math-U-See’s website (look under ‘Addition Fact Sheets’ and ‘Subtraction Fact Sheets’).

While we were doing this, my preschooler joined us at the table doing a similar activity – a page with a single number that she coloured or glued scraps on.  She feels pretty special to be learning her numbers and doing Maths like her big sister.

Please feel free to share things that have helped you in your Maths challenges!  I am an open book…

[You might be interested in my Pinterest Board: Home Educating - Maths for further ideas.]

Organic Food on a Budget

vege basket

Why eat organic?

Organic food is quite simply more nutritious, more ethical, and safer.  It is higher in vitamins and minerals, antioxidants, flavenoids, and organic food is grown in nutrient-dense soil with sustainable practices.  It doesn’t contain harmful pesticides, herbicides, fungicides, insecticides, flavour enhancers, artificial sweeteners, genetically-engineering, and the like.  It is also fair trade and ethically produced.

One of the things to consider when weighing up the cost of eating organic food, is the actual cost in eating conventional food, as the true cost is measured in terms of every part of the chain – the cultivation, the effects on farmers and local economies, the manufacture, the distribution, and the waste.  We are not only responsible for what we put in our bodies and discard at the end of the day, but also for the additional load we have contributed to the environment via our purchasing.  Something to think about. :)

If you have to compromise somewhere, buy the spray-free alternatives or visit the EWG’s list, ‘Clean 15’, for the things you can buy with the lowest pesticide residues (although these still won’t be as nutrient dense as their organic counterparts).

eggsAs you are deciding how you can afford to eat organic food, consider that by making this choice you putting the highest quality nutrients into your body and ensuring the best health for you and that of your family.  It may mean making some budget cuts elsewhere, but it is a worthy investment if you can take steps towards greater health.

For our family, we very rarely rent movies or eat out, and have started get better about being more creative with our gift-giving – which has been a little beyond our means at times!  It also means we simply go without things sometimes.  But we have chosen to make organic food part of our family’s quest towards what we believe is responsible stewardship of our bodies and the environment.

Have a read of this great article, one of the places I referred to when writing this post.

Turkish market

Where to start

First things first – you’ll need to do some research.  Find (preferably) local sources for fresh produce, meat, dairy, and other sources for your pantry goods, many of which can be found online.

It may be stating the obvious a bit, but I’ll say it anyway: you’ll also want to write up a detailed budget worksheet, and see how much you can put towards your groceries each week.  We looked at Dave Ramsay’s helpful resources 10 years ago and still use his suggestions in how we manage our finances.

Sourcing Food

  • Find your local farmers markets – turn market day into a fun family day.  Get to know your local growers.  They’re often a super source of wisdom and advice.
  • Find a good fruit and vege box supplier online if you can, which contain seasonable varieties of fruit and/or vegetables. You’ll probably still need to buy the more expensive items that aren’t usually in the boxes.
  • Join a co-op or start one.
  • Start a garden, or at the very least, plant herbs such as parsley, coriander, mint and sage. You could do these in planter box off the window sill.

Buying tips

  • Buy in bulk (eg. flour, nuts, legumes)
  • Avoid buying processed snacks and simply make your own.  It just takes some creativity.
  • Buy specialty items online (usually for much cheaper) for things such as salt, spices, cacao products, bee products, sea vegetables, etc.
  • Ditch buying the organic versions of processed foods, such as boxed cereals and bars as these are not usually nutritious anyway and can quickly bump up your grocery bill.
  • If you can’t get organic meat, eggs and dairy, always buy grass-fed versions.

Preparing and storing food

  • Make bone broths from chicken frames and beef bones that are left over from your meals.  You could also buy them for next to nothing from your meat supplier.  Freeze tons of the stuff!
  • Buy fresh produce in season, and freeze, ferment, make simple sauces to add to meals and freeze these also.
  • Source simple and nutritious recipes for your meals, print, and store in your recipe folder
  • Create meal plans, so you are only shopping for exactly what you need that week.  If you have some room in the budget, stock up on pantry items.
  • Don’t throw anything out – I use all my leftovers somehow.  Vegetables can be diced and added with eggs and cheese for a frittata; small amounts of meat can be turned into stirfries and rice dishes; ratatouille can be blended and turned into a sauce.  Try putting your ingredients into your search engine and see what you come up with.

You might like to consider making a gradual transition into making the switch to organic food.

One of the things I noticed with us, is that I tried replacing ‘apples for apples’ in the beginning, until eventually (after a few years) our eating habits themselves changed and as a result our overall grocery bill dropped.

Did I miss anything?  Comment below!

Some other posts you might be interested in:

Update on Domenic Johansson case

Domenic and his parentsA couple of weeks ago I wrote about Domenic Johansson, who was forcibly removed from his parents almost 4 years ago while they were boarding a flight to India.  Domenic was homeschooled, which at the time was legal in Sweden.

His parents, Christer and Annie Johansson, appealed to the Swedish Supreme Court to hear their case.  Last Friday the Johanssons learned that the Court has refused to hear their case.

The Johansson’s are currently reassessing their next steps after this discouraging setback.

Christer has been on Swedish Radio this last week and is updating friends and supporters on the family’s support page on Facebook.

Please continue to pray for heaven to move on their behalf!

For more information:

Two current petitions:

The Story of Stuff

Can I share a short film with you? This one is only 20m and well worth the watch.

It’s called “The Story of Stuff”.

thestoryofstuff

“From its extraction through sale, use and disposal, all the stuff in our lives affects communities at home and abroad, yet most of this is hidden from view. The Story of Stuff is a 20-minute, fast-paced, fact-filled look at the underside of our production and consumption patterns. The Story of Stuff exposes the connections between a huge number of environmental and social issues, and calls us together to create a more sustainable and just world. It’ll teach you something, it’ll make you laugh, and it just may change the way you look at all the stuff in your life forever.”

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There’s no doubt that we could do a better job of stewarding this earth in a more responsible and sustainable way.  I hope after watching it you will be freshly inspired to make a difference to how you steward your resources.

How we each can reduce the mass waste that we produce, and accumulation of stuff in our lives?

Here are some things that instantly come to mind:

  • Buy organic and local where possible (both food and other items)
  • Buy fair trade
  • Plant a garden in your backyard
  • Buy less – ask yourself, is it necessary?
  • Recycle, reuse, but most of all, reduce
  • Buy more durable items
  • Reduce household waste

shopping figure

Deal with some of the thinking and motivation behind the accumulation of stuff.  Change you.

  • Become a giver
  • Become a pray-er
  • Re-order your priorities
  • Simplify your life
  • Get outside!
  • Look after the needy and vulnerable with intention
  • Meet legitimate spiritual and emotional needs in a legitimate way, and not through retail therapy and ‘stuff’ accumulation.
  • Ignore fashions and trends
  • Switch off the TV and do something different – read, draw, hike, play board games, walk on the beach…
  • Be thankful in all things!

Remember that one person can make a difference.  [Did you know the average American produces about 1,600 pounds (726kg) per year?  There's definitely room for improvement on that.  Read the rest of Annie's blog post here.]

I know this might all seem a little over-simplistic in terms of what each of us can do, as there are many interwoven factors driving this machine.  But at the end of the day, as long as there is consumer demand, then the stuff will keep being churned out.  And the waste will keep being produced.  I believe it will just take individuals, groups, and communities to start to change, and eventually sustainable living and wise stewardship will become core values that we live by.  Well, that is my hope. :)

Obviously if I was to do this topic justice, I’d need to do a lengthy series of posts. :)

But instead, I encourage you to go on a journey yourself… become a researcher; ask questions; find out where things are produced and purchase wisely; read labels; support causes that seek to bring change; come up with a ‘game plan’ for your family and get everyone involved.

Do something today!

DIY Fort Kit

I was looking for gift ideas for my nephew recently and stumbled upon this neat idea for a homemade fort kit.

I came across heaps of great deals for the contents, including the head lamp which I got for half price.  It pays to shop around a bit!

DIY Fort kit

My version contains:

  • Camouflage tarpaulin (you could use a sheet – I just liked the idea of it being able to use it inside and outside)
  • Kids head lamp
  • Spring pegs (these ones open really wide – or you could use clamps)
  • Rope
  • Glow sticks
  • Favourite snacks
  • A cotton bag (something I hung onto after buying some linen)

This website also has some ideas, as well as a neat label which I used too.

DIY fort kit label

I’m hoping it’s going to be a hit.  What little boy doesn’t like making forts?  At the very least, he’ll have some snacks to eat and a headtorch to play with after lights out. :)

DIY Fort kit line